[Q] overwhelmed! personal help for low vision to root note 3 topic

Ok I see I posted in wrong spot so im going to try this plea once more.

I know xda is known to be a top site I trust in for rooting but danm, there is just links to links to more links and one topic to get an answer goes through like five links to get the download and im still not sure if its right. :(

is there ANYONE who is willing to help me find the things I cant see bc my pc is making it more confusing with all the links just to find one tar download or gapps. And I still havnt found the actual download.

Is there another site anyone recamends I could use to find the files I need to download and root or can email me personally with the information??

im sprint galaxy note 3
I have odin already
need correct working tar.md5 file to root and the supersu and gapps if needed. I wanted to just flash a clean stable rom that I can set with a dark them to help me read the screen better and easier bc im half blind. But this egg hunt on the forums is overwhelming. Can anyone please help me? You are free to personally email me at amberduby86@gmail.com I was just hoping it would be easier then I thought to root so I could see better but its turning into a scavenger hunt so I figured if I could ask someone, who knows the forums well, if they could help direct me. Id greatly appreciate the help! Im a graphic designer so I can do something in return for you lol :)

[Q] help/advice/links for vision impaired topic

Hi guys, I have rooted a few phones in my past, galaxy epic and s3 I think, so I know a lil of the ins and outs. However, its been a good four years or so and I now have a galaxy note 3 n900p from sprint. Obviously after so many years, rooting is far more advanced in know how and I am just in awe of what you all can do to help improve a phone. its great!

Not sure how common ppl like me are here but I am wanting to root my note 3 for medical purposes lol im deaf so sound doesnt matter and im half blind along with half vision in the one eye I can see out of. so dont need fancy wallpapers either, just good contrast to read clearly.

The forms are now fully loaded with all kinds of roms but I am wondering if someone could possible link me to spacific downloads/thread for certain things ro suit my disabilityand improve it

I have odin and I have seen cf auto root but I would like to get the most simple clean dark rom. Screens are easier for me to read if its a dark background with white text. I have seen this and used it on passed rooted phones. It helps a lot with eye strain. So I assume ill need a custom recovery then yes? before I flasg a custom rom?

I see lollipop is out, I am on 4.4.4 and again, I dont need the flashy bells and whistles just clean stable and dark.(i actually wish to ffind either an invert colors app or custom web settings to invert the colors to a dark theme) but if 5.0 is stable, ill try it :)

I will list I did temp root yesterday from another site, it didnt work, something was missing, I knew it but couldnt figure out what it was till I skimmed something over here about putting your phone in usb debugging mode. Basically I got up to installing the supersu but kept failing so I was wondering why then I saw I never was told to put in usb debugging. Will me not doing that harm much? And basically only installed cwm but no root.

Bottom line is I wanna ask and confirm that I just need to reflash the tar and recovery and such all together right? If anyone could personally help link me to where I could find the right information to fit my disability needs, clean dark stable rom. Plus what method I should use to root or if need custom kernals too. I will pick up easy but its finding the info I need that is challenging right now with the vision I have so thank you in advance for any kindness and support to be my extra pair of eyes :)